Remember to Play
January 18, 2009 by Will Marre
Today was extraordinary. The surf has been nearly dead flat for 10 days. In the middle of winter that almost never happens. Meanwhile the weather has been sensational. High seventies, no clouds, no wind. The water is clear. A big storm that got stirred up near Japan finally sent overhead waves our way. And by early this morning, these beautiful blue-green watery highways began forming and I went surfing. It’s so energizing. The cold water, clear morning light and super smooth wave faces. When I came back my wife said she was so happy to see me back to my “real” self. She said she can always feel the stress and tension in me if I go too many days without my playtime in nature’s biggest spa. It got me thinking that all of us need to remember to play in ways that renew us. For me the best way doesn’t involve video games or green fees; it’s just me and the ocean. But everyone’s different. What renews each of us is as individual as our fingerprints. The main thing is that we know what it is and do it faithfully. Regularly. Play is an important part of psychological well-being. When we neglect it we get cranky or worse, do and say stupid things. Play…what a great idea.

Will – I was musing on your “play” consideration and on the fact that for each individual there exists a different definition of what “play” means. I was trying to describe my definition of play, rest and tranquility to my wife and I came up with the following. This describes the time between when I am strapped into my race car or seated on my motorcycle (with my helmet on) just before the flag drops or I shift into first gear and pull away. She gets it – sort of. But, actually, where the experience is wonderful for me it scares her terribly. Different strokes.
Ed
The Green Rush
She barks ~ shaking off the dew.
Growling low. Slow.
The pulse, alert. A time separate.
Secure. Magical.
Wild. Commanding. Wanton.
Senses slipping.
Focus. A path yields.
A green blur.
Tranquility.
Knowingly, the Devil nods . . waiting.